The perfect person is in your mind. This person is designed by you. He or she looks, acts, walks, and talks the way you imagine. The challenge is getting this person out of your mind and into your reality. The reality- you can’t. There’s one Creator of mankind. It’s impossible to create this individual. (We can produce others, but we can not create them. If you think so, try)
One day, if you find someone close to your perfect image, he or she will never add up to everything you desired. You’ll find this person will fall short of some of your expectations, either by words, actions, or deeds. The reason- this person can’t follow the scripts written in your mind without having a personal copy.
So, you may rob yourself of an ideal mate because you are chasing an illusion of his or her image of perfection. The reality- we fall short of perfection, and the person you’ve imagined does not exist. It is possible someone close to the “perfect” idea of a person you desire will appear. There is an ideal choice for you in a potential mate.
If you fail to see things this way, whenever you finally decide to let go of thought of “the perfect one” you may find yourself older, have let the ideal person walk away, or you have learned to recognize that you should appreciate the person before you.
If you’re wise, at this point, you’ll focus on the important qualities. Realize perfection begins with choosing the right person desired according to his or her character. Then, follow cultivating and maintaining the ideal relationship you desired.
Response to the Daily Prompt Challenge – Today’s word (Perfect)